Thursday, August 25, 2011

It's the most wonderful time of the year... {Back to School}


For some, the most wonderful time of the year is Christmas, but for me it's Back-to-School time. This is usually something that I don't admit. I overheard a group of moms talking once, saying how sorry they felt for those of us who were excited to send our kids back to school. Until then, I never considered the subject. Note to self: good parents want to spend time with their kids. Check.

So from then on, I kept my true feelings to myself.

Summer in our house means complete chaos. Each Spring, Marc and I plan wonderful things we're going to do with the kids over the summer. (He's a teacher, so he has the summers "off" too...although he wouldn't call it time off.) We plan zoo trips and camp and museum outings, hikes, bikes, a weekend trip or two if we're lucky. And, for the days when we're at home, we brainstorm all sorts of cool homeschoolish lessons.


In reality, summer looks like this: Super Uncle comes out to Colorado and stays with us so that he and hubby can tear apart every room in the house in preparation for a remodel. The kids chase each other around with sharp sticks, stopping every 2.8 minutes to ask for something to eat. I am lucky if I get my work done in 12 hours each day, since I work from home. By the end of each day we're lucky if we've escaped without stitches or a call to poison control.

Now, I love my kids. A lot. I love that I work from home and can be Room Mom, volunteer in the classroom, pick them up from school, take them to dance lessons and science classes and play dates. I love our Friday movie nights and weekend outings. But I also love dropping them off at school again on Monday (and Tuesday, and Wednesday...). In fact -- and lean in real close, because I'm gonna whisper this -- I felt as if the clouds parted and the hallelujah chorus started playing on Tuesday when I dropped the two remaining kids off for their first day of school.

I've gotten more accomplished in the last two and a half days than I did all summer. As I type, there's a plate of homemade "cupcakes" (apple cinnamon muffins with cream cheese frosting) sitting next to me for my little guy's preschool birthday party tomorrow; a pan of eggs in the oven, with which I'll make and freeze "Egg McMuffins" for on-the-go breakfasts; chicken in the crock pot for tonight's chicken enchilada dinner, the dishwasher is empty, the laundry is running, and later I'm going to sneak in a workout before I go to pick up the kids. That's how it's done! {Watch out Martha!}

Oh, and when I pick the kids up from school? Instead of thinking "I'm going to jump off a cliff if I have to hear one more argument." I think "Aw, I missed you guys today!"


Sure I miss the days (and there were a lot of them!) of staying in pj's all day long, staying up late and sleeping in, but I'm pretty sure I'm a more patient mother, organized homemaker, and better chef when school is in session.

3 comments:

Surviving Triplets Plus One said...

O M G Kellie. You sad it BEAUTIFULLY. Back to school is a chance for new routine, new growth, new adventures, a new relationship with teachers, friends, mom and dad, and siblings, and SO much more! It's not happy at "getting rid of them for a few hrs" it's about giving them new chances to learn and grow into the amazing people the are and will become. And yes. Having time to do the "little" things without chaos underfoot is absolutely necessary to make for a happy family. I live in constant chaos - you know the story! - and having the few hrs of "quiet" when trips are in school for D and I to spend time together, for him to go to his PT appts, and for us to run errands just us is necessary my sanity.

Hope you enjoyed your workout!

Steph said...

I have to agree with you, especially your very last line. In our house, our nightly (and weekend) family times run better when we all have a chance to be on our own at some point.

Erin aka Conscious Shopper said...

Amen, amen, amen